Thursday, December 07, 2006

Beautiful quote



every once in a while i receive something via e-mail from a wonderful friend that just has to be shared,,,,enjoy...read it slow....read it twice ..tom


IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck (written after she found out she was dying from cancer).
I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing a way nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner."
There would have been more "I love you's" More "I'm sorry's." But mostly, given another shot at life,
I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it.. live it and never give it back. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!! Don't worry about who doesn't like you , who has more, or who's doing what Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us. Let's think about what we are blessed with, and what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally. I hope you have a blessed day.

3 comments:

shoeguru said...

i love erma. when i was a kid, my mom made me read 'if life is a bowlful of cherries, what am i doing in the pits'... i was never really sure why,..hmmm. but anyway, i loved the book, and then she started making me listen to garison keilor, and eventually i got hooked on that kind of self-depricating humor, but i digress... i learned early erma's perspective and my favorite aunt is much like her and helped me through a lot of tough situations by helping me to look past the trees, so to speak. always have to look on the bright side, even when there's no hope of changing sides. one of my favorite qoutes of hers is actually very sasonally timely- i think of it each christmas- it goes 'There's nothing sadder in this world than to awake on Christmas morning and not be a child'. kind of sums it all up, huh?

Peace on earth....please?
Happy Holidays

andy said...

hi
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andy said...

hey tom

Its working again !
Thanks for the erma.
She was great.
Nice nice nice seeing you in NYC.
I will be back in jan for fame will you?
andy