Blogs Birthday

well it was exactly one year ago I started this Blog.....now they say most blogs peter out after 3 months.....they say ( i have no idea who they are) most blogs never even get people to comment......well we certainly broke that mold................yOU HAVE BEEN SUCH AN AMAzingGROUP OF PEOPLE...........i know now that my words have reached hundreds of people.....but what you also must know that your comments also have reached so many and in many times were just as entertaining as i tried to be.................i have saved every e-mail to my business account tcheffo@yaleet.net, my personal account thunderbyd@aol.com and to this blog and i have to tell you i still am amazed by the support that i was given.....i mean i know it was not your everyday,run of the mill, slam dunk kind of situation...i mean you all stood by me as the chemo entered my veins...you all sat right beside me when my bladder was removed and replaced with a piece of my intestine...you all held my hand when i took those first few steps to the computer in the hospital to tell you all i was gonna make it........you all stopped any tears from flowing before they even tried to leave my eyes (although a few drops just managed to escape just now)......i cannot even begin to thank all of you but i have to try..........to my wife, casey and chris your humor and love got me through the toughest of times......... you guys rocked...to all my cousins i love you so much and feel like i was so blessed to be part of this family , to my friends ,brothers and sisters of the road....... ....... i could not have made it without knowing we would all be together again......to my dearest friends what can i say....i tried listing all of you all but was to choked up so i just have to tell you something..." i have been to the darkest place a man could ever go, i have looked through these eyes and saw what never should be seen, i have been lifted from my dream to become whole again and you have been part of the reason why.........i will spend the rest of my life never ever taking our friendship for granted.................your hearts were so giving,caring convincing.......i had no other choice but to survive."......to everyone within the sound of this blog.....THANK_YOU from the bottom of my new bladder......................................tomstrong..........

MOURNING FOR MY METS

photo one 2006 ..... photo two 2005.. exactly one year apart photo was taken wednesday night going to the QVC BREAST CANCER FUND RAISER.......(MORE ON THE EVENT LATER)...... as the saying goes ...you can't win the all (BUT IT LOOKS LIKE I WON THIS BATTLE i fought over the last year)...but all us mets fans wanted was to win 4 out of 7 and advance to the center stage......well i want to thank all my pals for pulling for my mets...........even though your loyalty was to other teams..red sox...atlanta..seattle.etc....but you all wanted my mets to win for me....it was suppose to be our year,....but as chris said to me in the top of the ninth..."dad at least your alive to see this"..ya gotta love him.....ok the event wednesday night was amazing....our industry raised over 3,000,000 for breast cancer research...we got to hang with carmen electra,stephon marlberry (Knicks) meadow from the sopranos... and many more.........we had a blast....it looks like October is officially CANCER AWARENESS MONTH IN THE CHEFFO CIRCLE and i am so glad all of you are a part of that circle.......together we will make a difference....i swear............... there is a really special shout out to the birthday blogger extrodinair susan k (oct 14)...casey and i and a bunch of friends surprised her (a party was given to her by mike her husband) in myrtle beach and we danced the night away....casey got to sing with the live band the zen tricksters and really stole the show with her version of "me and bobbie McGee"...it was one of the top ten moments of my live..you see casey was celebrating her 5th years from being diagnosed (we are one day apart) and she really shined i mean really freaking shined up there.....the house just roared for her.........oh well i cannot end this weeks wrap-up without wishing karen m a happy birthday and my dear friend bob good luck with his "walk in the park" that started this week... let's get them next year......................love you..official member of the "soggy bottom boys"..tom

ANNIVERSARY & BIRTHDAYS

well today i celebrate my one year anniversary from being told "houston we have a problem"....i of course i said "what you mean we"....those words echo in my head..."tom your gonna have to lose your bladder"...i said" did you just say i gonna have to loose my bladder?" and the rest is history....i hope i set an example to those who will follow in my footsteps.....and for those who are up against the "trials of life" i can only say if you have the family,friendship and support that i have had....it truly will be a "WALK IN THE PARK"........ 5 years ago this weekend was also the "day the earth stood still" casey will celebrate her 5th year after being told she had CML.....5 years ....wow......casey i know how hard it has been but you have been my inspiration through my ordeal...your strength and courage has been amazing........ mom and dad love you so much..............LAST but NOT least...it is queen of the bloggetts birthday today SUSAN K..(karen m is next week ).......she is off fishing somewhere so post your birthday wishes...and anniversary wishes here........where the news keeps coming....27/7. thanks for coming along on my journey.........it has been a "long strange trip"......full circle.....think you should re-read yesterdays last comment it is a tribute to us all,,,,,,,, i will try to re-print it...TOM....good luck bob in your treatment

A WEDDING ,A BABY AND TWO KITTENS....(THREE UNRELATED TOPICS)

cASEY...MICHELE...SUSAN K..KAREN........well we sure had a great time this weekend...michele (from work ) got married and we let our hair down...(well whatever hair i got left)...she invited everyone she has ever met in her entire life.....we danced the night away..... she did the most wonderful thing you could imagine...joe and michele in lieu of favors donated in everybody's honor and in honor of the Cheffo family......money to sloan kettering hospital (best cancer care anywhere)...we were blown away and mr and mrs meier (michele and joe) we are forever grateful for what you did ........I wish them an incredible ride throughout their lives.....enjoy hawaii you guys......ok the second part of this post..stephine and jason of loose lucy's fame had a baby this week....beautiful baby boy..jackson is his name......good luck in life jackson.....your mom and dad are the cooliest people around........ TOPIC THREE......... CASEY BECAME A grandma yESTERDAY...her cat rockstar had two kittens....(that means sue and i are great grandparents...proud to say mother and kittens are doing fine..........enjoy the weddiing photo and it was so good to see everyone and some of my bloggetts in person...the doobies,the cartwrights..rockmans..grossers... larris & larris....krypels ....candy girl....kaminsky and murphy........tina.....everyone form work......old and new.......i had a blast seeing you all............lots of good memories......lots of good times......smiles....tom...................................................................ps.....coming up on one year ....oct 14th.....the day i was told....."tom we got a big problem"......I'm still standing.............better than i ever did....first on the dance floor...one of the last to leave........

WALK FOR THE CURE

PHOTO OF TEAM CASEY ...... we had the most excellent time at the "light the night " event thursday night..the event was put on by the leukemia/lymphoma society to raise awareness and funds for all blood cancers ..it was packed with special events and survivors and supporters everywhere....we raised thousands of dollars and walked a few miles to raise awareness ..i do not have to tell you how thankful i was to all of the people who donated and walked...it also was my "first" walk as a survivor.....yeah that's right i am a survivor..and dam proud of it.....survivors carried white balloons and supporters carried red..all the balloons were light up ..it was a sight to see and feel......i was never one for fundraiser and these types of events until we started doing the breast cancer event and the leukemia walk once a year "oct 18" is the day to raise money for breast cancer research (OUR COMPANY DONATES $120,000 worth of footwear to be sold on QVC ALL PROCEEDS for BREAST CANCER research ) WE JOIN OTHER FOOTWEaR COMPANIES TO FIGHT THE FIGHT .....it has made a world of difference in my life to do these events.........it kinda makes you feel that you are making a difference.......we know TEAM CASEY made A DIFFERENCE LAST THURSDAY NIGHT ON THE CAMPUS OF HOFSTRA UNIVERSITY...............................................oh yeah..forgot to tell you i had my ct scan results last week...looks like you gonna have me around for a while...all systems are a -go..... new bladder is taking a liking to me.....think i will keep it for a while...........next test in three months.......they are keeping an eye on me i guess............tom ......micheles (from work) wedding is this week.....saturday is going to be a blast.......